If your partner is not able to repeat what you said or you do not feel understood , repeat your point until you are satisfied . 4 . The listener 's job during this exercise is to be certain you understand and communicate that understanding to your spouse before you comment on the content of what you are being told . 5 . Once your partner feels heard , then it becomes your turn to comment and be heard . 6 . Continue this process until resolution , passing...











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