Oddly , he never congratulated us for those things for example , when my oldest cousin earned his bachelor 's degree , he never phoned , sent a card , or even verbally mentioned it to anyone ) His death seemed to reveal more about him than his life . As though his dying gave others permission to speak of his shortcomings , information started to emerge and I felt that his loss ironically made me know him better . For example , I 'd never known until after his...











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