I 'm concerned about you " in a caring way , followed by "I 'm here to listen if you want to talk " Any comment that comes across as insulting or an attack will be heard defensively and unproductive for what your original intention may have been "I don 't understand WHY you don 't just eat . You better stay out of the ?ing bathroom " These are not words of love , but of control , looking for a quick fix . Laying it on...











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