Where Are You Going ? Where Have You Been ' and Bob Dylan 's ``It 's All Over Now , Baby Blue . While there are several other songs that are similar to the overall theme of Oates ' story , ``It 's All Over Now , Baby Blue ' has substantial similarities and support from several critics . The reoccurring lyric in ``It 's All Over Now , Baby Blue (Dylan ) is `` .it 's all over now . Arnold Friend spends the majority of the time at Connie 's...