Reflected best Self

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When I am at my best , I am an effective communicator . I try to be objective in my thoughts and actions . I let others express their opinions openly in case their tempers are flaring . By letting others express themselves first helps them regain their composure . After that I express my opinion . By having maintained my calm others listen to what I have to suggest , as I seem more insightful into the matter

I am at my self-best when I have functional interpersonal relationships

that are characterized by emotional attachments without loss of self-independence or threats . I always believe that effective interpersonal relationships satisfy the needs , opinions , and attitudes of the parties involved . I try to identify the needs of others and doing the small things that count . I am not material and can go out of my way to assist others in financial matters if I can for it is not about the money that can buy the world but the thought that counts . By knowing how to use simple courtesy words , such as and thank you and assisting others , we create and nurture relationships with others

I am at my best self when I am patient . I think patience pays and it is the greatest virtue and impatience can easily derail someone from being objective and observant , as anxiety clouds judgment . For me patience is not an option but a must , especially in a world that is characterized by changes all the time . Schedules change and it is very easy for one to be disrupted and delayed . However , by being patient , I come across as composed dependable and rational

I am at my best self when I feel responsible and accountable for my actions . The blame game is a gross waste of time . Accountability means that one is willing to defend and take his consequence of his actions This means that I am able to move from dwelling on the present focusing on the next move . Accountability creates an air of responsibility and people around are likely to benefit from it . By assuming leadership roles , I feel my self-best . Will I survive the scrutiny , criticism negative comments , and resistance ? Leadership means that I must inspire and motivate those that I lead . It means to rule above and be the bigger person , able to understand compromise , trust , delegate , energize and manage , all without using force instead of influence . I try to maintain growth and remain focused on the goal . By entrusting others with responsibility they feel worthy and contribute more thus improving productivity . In my thought , a good leader must display a high degree of integrity and to deliver the highest level of work quality irrespective of the obstacles that may present themselves . In being principled , I believe in standing up for what is right irrespective of the resistance of the common opinion

I am at best self when I set my ego aside because I feel as part of the system because the...