Psychology - Clinical interviewing/ HR interviewing

Losing a member of the family , especially the Head , is difficult for a child to accept . In times when a person is still in the middle of maturity , they need someone who will be their guiding light . Parents are considered to be our first teachers and losing either of them will be a very tragic and devastating to a child

However , death comes to everybody in any form . People do not have the ability to foresee events such as death of a family member and so there is always time to regret on

things when someone close to our heart have already taken their last breath

There are two (2 ) brave persons that I was able to interact with , they have the same story but they deal with their dilemma differently . Both are currently in their sophomore year and both have experienced losing somebody close to their heart

At first , according to them , they were devastated with what happened The death of their fathers came as a shock to them because all this years , their hero does not have any sickness at all

But , not all heroes are capable enough to escape death . According to one of the interviewee , her father died due to a freak road mishap . It is painstaking for her to see her dad with all the tubes connected to almost all vital parts of his body . Nevertheless , she , her mother and siblings prayed hard and asked for the Lord 's intervention to save the life of the Head of their family

After some time of bereavement over the loss of her father , together with her family , she stood up again and continued with their everyday life . Instead , all the memories made by his father were engraved to her heart and she uses it as a motivation to conquer life even more

For the other interviewee , the time of death of his father was also not anticipated by any one from their family . According to him , he was called by his mother through his cellular phone and broke to him the sad news while he was still in school . Because he was disturbed by the news he was not able to concentrate on the lessons for that day and had the eager desire of going home and be with his entire family

Even though he is not that close to his father , he still felt the pain of losing the person who gave life to him and at the same time , regret all the moments that he let passed that could have been a form of their father-and-son bonding . It was quite obvious that even if the incident happened last November 2007 , sadness and regret can still be seen in him . However , nothing can be done and everything is settled . Now he is lifting to God whatever will happen to him and his family

His father died due to a stray bullet wound near the chest area . Before even reaching the nearest hospital , his father already expired...